gazwood wrote:
49 days for me now, and I must say, I don't think it gets easier!!!
Anyone been through it before know when the urges and cravings simply disappear because although I feel like i've broke the habit, i feel as if I could smoke again anytime soon!!
Cotinued good luck to all those who want to stop and are giving it a go.
I smoked for the best part of 20 years and have now been smoke-free for 5 and a half years. I still get the odd weird craving to have a cig but they're very few and far between now. When I first stopped, I was getting these little urges a lot. I worked out why they started to go away; it was because my brain was de-programming itself of all the little excuses I had for lighting up - cup of coffee, pint of beer, after food, and so on. You would be amazed how many hundreds of these little triggers are wired into your brain.
The secret to beating these hooks is realising they are they. Quite often, I found an urge coming up when I did something I hadn't done since before stopping, like say getting off a plane. But as soon I realised why that particular urge had come, it was back in its box and never came out again. Gradually these triggers have been erased and there are very few left now, if any, hence why I get so few urges nowadays.
As others have said, you have to want to stop. Don't see it as giving up anything, except an addiction. Alan Carr is right when he says the only reason you want another cigarette is that you are suffering withdrawal symptoms from the previous one, or your brain is still de-programming itself from that addiction.
I stumbled twice in my five smoke-free years - one a drag on a funny cigarette that was being passed round at a party. The other was a drag on someone else's cig at the funeral of a friend. The former of those was me bing silly but the latter felt like a ritualistic thing, as my mate who died loved his cigs and it was a tribute to him. (No, they didn't kill him). And that should be that for me.
And, yes, you do get your sense of smell back. I'm now very intolerant of anyone smoking near me; when I was in Spain just recently, I was in a bar where people snoked and when I got back to the hotel, I could smell it on me and my clothes the next morning., Yuck! To think I had to put up with that before the smoking ban. Happily now I can wear the same pair of trousers the next day - as long as I didn't spill any beer on them!